She said that this was just me doing more of the same. That I did this all of our MR. STBX said that we were not good together and she wasn't happy for a very long time. I just listened and validated where applicable.
What did she mean by "more of the same"?
I know you are trying to set boundaries and don't want to be friends... but try to work on being "friendly", sort of how you would treat a co-worker you have to work with but have no interest in having a friendship with.
Hi Claire, Mind reading here but I think she was referring to me being controlling. This has been an accusation of hers since BD and a go to whenever she is angry with me. Plus, the context makes sense.
I feel I have been friendly towards STBX. Some here even felt I have been too friendly.
What are your thoughts on the proposed text?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
