"Toots, as much as I think that there is a chance things can change and the M can be repaired. I know deep in my heart that it would be a hard work to heal all the wounds. I am not sure anymore if I want to go down that road."

Hi Pink, I hear what you're saying - I feel the same way, and I would have to think long and hard about what I really wanted now. That's no bad thing. Better than wanting the M back at all costs (to yourself.)Well, what will be will be....

Glad you had some great GAL - Zumba and Samba sound great! I would love Pink to teach me to Samba.

I'm sad to read about how your S feels. But you're quite right to focus on the bits you CAN do, and not the bits that H is avoiding just now. Those are his to own.

Have a great weekend!! (((pink)))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus