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W texts me this morning that she took kids to do a 5k race fundraiser for the place where we got one of our dogs. Tells me the kids times & her time in walking the dog. This is upsetting to me on many fronts...
- I've done two marathons and countless half etc. W doesn't run. It's my thing, so it hits a nerve that she took kids to this
- I helped choose the dog that we got from this charity
- she didn't mention it but good chance that OM went as well

So, this is upsetting to me. She won't get it if I bring it up; nothing about any of this whole thing is a big deal to her.
Also, why does she tell me this stuff? Trying to hurt me? So detached from the magnitude of what she has done that she doesn't even get it? Still trying to keep me just connected enough that I am a Plan B? I still crave some attachment but sometimes the info hurts.

Also, she has kids thus weekend. She's doing something tonight and parked if I wanted to have the kids fir t he evening. One of our sons is staying with me, the other wanted to stay at grandoarents. This is another tricky scenario. I don't ever want to pass up time with my kids. Both kids would have gone to grandparents if I said no, so she and OM are going to do whatever their plans are. So at least I get extra time with one if my kids, though it has some feeling of being complicit in what W us doing. Thoughts?