(That wasn't a very successful poll, was it?)

Not much has changed since the last message. We are still not in contact, and the assets are legally divided, but now the divorce papers have been served.

But one difference is that I've started having dreams in which she is the primary character, and which reflect our current situation. There have been at least four or five such dreams, and it's odd that it only now occurred to me that I should start writing them down to see what my subconscious may be trying to tell me here. As it is, I don't remember any details except the fact that I am having these dreams.

Well, I do remember a little bit about the one I just had. It took place in my childhood home (why do so many of my dreams take place there, and I only realize it when I wake up?) and she was there with OM, and I was there by myself, and we each had a different room, and it was the Christmas holiday. Oh, and another I had a few days ago was one in which I actually confronted and berated OM. Yes, I should start making note of what happens in these dreams.