May, I don't know if you remember me from "back in the day" I was on here too back in 11/12 even 13.
Anyway, I remember your story and I think you are crazy strong for pulling through what you did. I checked back on here recently and I'm glad to see you are still going. Your new little one is doing well.
I was always rooting for you.
I lived through an affair years ago -- but it was in a LTR not a marriage, and we didn't survive, ultimately. I think there were loads of other reasons.
Since you said what you did about the judgement from people -- I am not judging you but I would just be curious if you can talk a little about what goes into your day to day strength and choice to stay and make it work?
