Those little moments really caused me to backslide. The moments that always came so easy in the past served as comfort to me during the dark days of this journey.
I thought if I allowed those moments to happen, like they had naturally for years, that she would see the light and come back.
The problem is my WW no longer looked at me the same way and it was just a trap to keep me close enough for her to be friends.
I'm not suggesting you be cold or rude but its time you set some basic boundaries for yourself. If she joins you for a cup of coffee on the porch, simply excuse yourself.
Imaging reconciliation is an expectation so its good that your letting it go.
Find your happy place and go there often.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
