STBX didn't call last night from work like she usually does. I thought to myself, maybe she's finally getting it. D4 and I had a fun night watching a movie, eating treats, and snuggling. I woke up this morning feeling good about the day. Then, STBX calls. I let it ring. 45 minutes later, she calls again. I let it ring. She follows up the calls with a text saying she just wanted to say hi to D4. I don't respond to this either.
I'm sure she will continue to text and call throughout the day. I don't plan to answer or respond. The problem is every time she calls or texts I get a pit in my stomach. Ugh.
STBX needs to realize that my time with the kids is sacred and she needs to respect that. I'm not going to be taking calls from her the next 18 years just to say hi to the kids.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
