I can relate to the Alien takeover of your W. My WW is just as whacky. Occasionally my W makes an appearance but it doesn't last long.
The WW has strong emotional motivation to continue down her path. The only thing you can do it let her go. I would not run her errands or take work off her plate that may be categorized as weak.
Tough love is tough but Sandi2 has great perspective on this in her threads. The response you got from not being available for a short period should confirm why you should be more unavailable.
Glad to see your no longer sharing a bed! Keep it up, it does get easier.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
