Wow, that's horrible and really ticks me off about the counselor. It's no wonder you are a little gun shy there. I guess it wouldn't be a bad idea to somewhat "interview" an MC at the first session, ask THEM questions, you know? To make sure they are solution oriented.
So my question above about your son, I meant to clarify, has he noticed anything different since your W has come out saying she wants to try to work things out? Is he noticing you guys are communicating more and doing more things together? Is he showing any jealousy about not having your undivided attention?
Just curious, I see that in my son sometimes when we do things with his dad.
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