Not the best night. Basically came home to confirm my H is having affair and OW was in our home while I was away. He was not home when I figured this all out, so I sent him text that basically said that I know, that I am trying to figure out what I am going to do, that I will hear him out, but if he denies it he will need to leave house. I said that we can't have M or friendship without transparency and lies.
Not sure if that is what DB calls for, but I feel damn good about the text. I am very calm and collected, probably because I really already knew. I am actually pretty sure this is the second trip that OW has been in house.
Have not received response nor has he come home.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
