Yes, Matt... passive aggressive joke on my part. Ill-advised. My partner? It wasn't a joke back. She's too literal.

I am still learning the "I'd be happier without you" approach. Right now, I'm miserable with her, and miserable without her. Unless I'm with someone else. Had drinks with a good friend this evening, watching TV tonight with my son. Since she'll be "late," I guess we'll address the pizza comments tomorrow. (I had half a sandwich. Not eating much these days.)


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19