Hi Ripken, I think the way to go is to 'act as if' the M is over. As if your life is your own business, and you are not reactive towards W or worried about what she may think or how she may react. I think that is the key.
Hey Ripken,
Sorry, I’ve been extremely busy and haven’t been on the DB Forum much at all for a few days. I certainly have not forgotten about you, my friend!
I loved Toots' advice, especially the quote above. I'm glad you agree with her and are using that "strategy."
Any GAL activities planned for the weekend?
Take care.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
