Quick update: I told her we could use the mediator of her choosing but that I reserved the right to change later if I'm not satisfied. Thanks for the idea CaliGuy. Of course, she picked the one closest to her office. She also wrote she's happy it goes forward.

Thanks all for you input. More later.

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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.