I recall when my W was in the twilight of the A I got this: "My therapist told me that I am just so far ahead of you in all this, I have ended the M, healed and moved on with my life and it just will take you some time"
Saw this post over in DifRent's thread. OMG!!! Did W's therapist actually say this?? Or was it one of W's half-truths?
Well I am not certain. However this was the SAME therapist that W decided just a week after BD... guilt was sinking in .. mind you OM was in full effect and I had no clue but W and IC knew about it ... anyways W had me go in and her IC explained how she could in fact MC us and IC us separately ... had I known anything about anything I would have see the HUGE red flag as she was IC with W months prior .... anyways I kid you not 25 minutes into the session the 'IC' said "I think you two should separate" .... no joke ... I sat there like I was hit in the face with a shovel as W and IC discussed how to make it 'easier' for all involved.
To this day I think W set it up with IC to break the news to me ... felt like an intervention of the Twilight Zone variety.
1 session .. 25 minutes ... and THAT BD .... so yeah I actually think IC may have told her that noise.
Took a few months of more unhappiness the IC didn't fix for W and W stopped going to her, went through 3 others as far as I know to this point where she is not seeing a priest.
