Toots - I am. I definitely am and that helps. Even though I'm acting as if my marriage is over and dropping the rope (which is 100% why I'm giving the key back in the first place), I wanted to be clear my intentions are not for my marriage to be over. I want to fight.

Even though I know this is the only healthy way to "fight".

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23