Kramer , this is great news! Most of us are still waiting for our ww to have their affairs end and the fog start to lift. Sure there's the withdrawal and piecing to handle, but everything seems to falling into place.
Congrats on the divorce being pulled Friday, that's huge!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
Ok, latest update. My wife withdrew divorce proceeding today, and just brought me official copy! She will write no contact letter today.
Things seem to be on track. Time will tell. Now, on to the hard work!
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
No contact letter sent by wife to OM (and cc to ME). It was received by OM and his response was also cc to me. I'm seeing action!
Last edited by Kramer; 05/29/1507:21 PM.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15
Kramer, this is awesome and very encouraging. Best of luck as you move forward. I have my DB on the way and I'm anxious/excited to get started.
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15
The relationship I had with you was thoughtless, selfish, humiliating and hurtful. My family and life was destroyed . I can only hope to rebuild what I have lost. In order to do that, I must end all contact with you.
Please respect my wish to regain my integrity and attempt to heal my family. I need to collect my things from your house. My jewelry, checks, bicycle importantly. My friend has offered to come pick them up this weekend. Her cell number is xxx-xxx-xxxx to coordinate . I have also given her your number.
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Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15