Ok, latest update. My wife withdrew divorce proceeding today, and just brought me official copy! She will write no contact letter today.
Things seem to be on track. Time will tell. Now, on to the hard work!
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15