WOW - RAI. That is a lot! Nice job with standing your ground. I guess the only question I had is did SHE bring this up by showing remorse or did YOU do the majority of the talking.

If it's the latter, no matter how true and valid it is, I wonder if it falls on deaf ears due to her still being in the fog and not showing remorse.

If you gave her 6 things SHE has to do, why would she want to go through all of that, if she is still in the fog and didn't approach you first?

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23