I would just caution you to not give her any ammunition. Your projected responses sound a little combative and possible to get in a back and forth conversation.
Obviously, you know yourself best, but for me I have a scripted response already (my X didn't have an A that I know of, but if I ever learned of one, this would be my response)
W: I don't understand why we just can't be friends. Me: I understand that you would like to be friends. I will continue to show you the respect & civility you deserve as the Mother of our wonderful children. At this time, I can not give you what you want, because of the lying and cheating, which disrespected our children, our family, our relationship and me.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
