And then of course it's the issue of the children becoming emotionally attached to a man who might disappear out of their lives - like he abandoned his own children and wife - her being pregnant, right?
Or - if your kids are hellions - let her have them all the time and see how long he lasts. Fill them up on sugar and red food dye before you drop them off with a new shooting video game that they will insist on playing there. Sorry, just my evil twin taking charge of the keyboard there for a sec...
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17