depress - Your life is yours. Its your job as a Mother and as a Woman to live it to its fullest. With that as your goal, work towards it, one step at a time. It is very difficult in the beginning, but taking small steps everyday will help you to be less reliant on him and more self confident of your future.

Toots had a great post to you. You have to make sure that you are operating within the bounds of DB and Sandi's Rules. These things give you the best chance for success. Operate that way, even if it is an act. If you are acting, WIN AN OSCAR!

Life is tough, especially going down these roads but this is not your defining moment!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015