I should add that I would not feel this way had he been a more engaged partner more of the time. But he made intentional decisions to harm me and our family (regardless of how well he thought those decisions through) and I'm not going to minimize THAT. It is the role of a parent and spouse to protect the family unit, not to intentionally torch it.
Posted before I saw this.
I want to be clear MB- I'm not accusing you of being entitled or unappreciative. I know you to be mature, loving, and committed. I don't really know what your H was like. When I said "this has been on my mind lately" it's simply because it really has, and I wanted to post about it.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
