I totally agree with this 100%. "So at some point you're going to have to say something like "Because having an affair and then lying about it, isn't how friends treat each other. But I'll always be courteous and civil."

At some point you will have to say that out loud. Of course the way you state it will have a profound impact on whether it sticks or not. I believe that stating it like you are over it and not like you are lashing out, is very important.

Sounds like you have a wonderful weekend planned. Good luck and have fun!

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015