I should add that I would not feel this way had he been a more engaged partner more of the time. But he made intentional decisions to harm me and our family (regardless of how well he thought those decisions through) and I'm not going to minimize THAT. It is the role of a parent and spouse to protect the family unit, not to intentionally torch it.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
