first post; my story

[Kembo05]

We didn't really talk much more last night. She said she was hoping we could make the D process as quick as possible and come to a mutual agreement on our assets and our daughter. I think she is wanting to make this as quick and "pain free" as possible because she doesn't want the truth to come out; especially with what she has done.

She said her heart has changed and it changed a couple of months ago (while she was having an A). No one knows about her A and she has really distanced herself from her friends and her family only knows that we are having issues; they know nothing of an A. I would never just tell everyone what is going on but I do think she needs to face the truth in what she has done. But I will STFU and just take care of the things I need to take care of. I'm just stating my opinion about that

My W is 29 and her A was with a 20 year old former student. She has hid that truth from everyone. She doesn't even have the courage to tell our counselor the truth about the A; she lied and told him it was a man that was only 6 years younger than her. I don't think she could be more wayward right now. Again, im not going to out my wife by any means; but I also don't want anything to happen that allows her to say we just "grew apart" and the D was a mutual decision. I want to be cordial, but I don't want to help her cover her lies and hide the truth. I hope that makes sense