wishing, How in the world are you suppose to help him if he has to go back to school? As I recall, he fired you as his wife, companion and lover. Wouldn't the help need to come from his current love bug? He's forgetting...you've moved on and yep, divorced. I think the beret is a bit tight on his head these days and he can't accept the fact that the divorce changes things. Poor man.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.