Thanks Matt. I know... she's living a fantasy romance with this woman right now. Everything associated with her is roses, everything that's routine or stressful is associated with me. I have to believe that once the dopamine wears off, and once we get out from under this startup business stress, she will be able to see more clearly that the one who slogs through the tough stuff is the one who's really more attractive.

At least that's my hope.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19