Bea- just like Bright I have followed your posts and am so glad to see you are living a life that brings you contentment. Just reading how the pain fades is a huge comfort. I must admit that I am fascinated by your XH's behavior as well.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Enjoy the gift but most importantly, enjoy your life.

M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou