It is disappointing how "the world" views D and Rs. Early on, before I even got to DB land, I googled how to detach. It *****ed me off that half of the pages redirected at Ss who are thinking of leaving the R - "so to make it easier to BD, detach first". A sorry state of affairs.
I'll be sparking up a new thread one of these days to update my situation status. Hope you can drop by and offer me some pointers. My tale is following yours remarkably so far and your insight is very much appreciated.
You take care to Z.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015