Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart

[BrightFuture]

Regarding 180s and detachment, it is really difficult to act differently around someone when they are not around. For the past 3 years, I have basically been living like a single mom (but not dating!).

I can SOOO relate to this. H and I, both traveled for work, and I did feel like a single Mom at some point, when it was just him traveling. A few years before the BD we did have a pretty much long distance marriage. It was important to me to spend time together, but he started to pull away at some point and became more distant.

I ask that b/c your h may never take initiative to substantially change & improve himself

AND OR to divorce you. I mean, what is HIS motivation for change?

I’ve been asking myself the same questions. Still have no answers though.


And this I complete agree with:

Becoming the very best version of ourselves that we can be (self actualization) by digging deep and doing really hard work, is probably THE achievement of our life.