I think I belong in Piecing...

[Painter]

A little update about some good things I'm noticing:

We're laughing and smiling more together. There hasn't been much of that except gallow's humor for a long time. We are much more together as a couple unit in counseling. It feels very different than it did the first several sessions. *Lightbulb moment* He's not spending the majority of the session complaining about me!

H is listening to the MC and still likes her and thinks she is smart and intuitive, even when she's giving him a hard time.

He's calling me a lot more.

I feel for the most part happy in my own sphere, regardless how he acts. The work with DB'ing is so positive for me that I'm enjoying myself and focusing on myself to where he can't really rock me.

One thing I'm curious about - on a couple of occasions, H has been upset that I didn't contact him - once that I didn't call him at work about something minor, and also that I didn't check with him before I signed up for a volunteer acticity for 2 hours in the morning on Memorial Day. This is out of character! The MC didn't pick up on it when I said I was so surprised by these reactions. Any insights?