One does not ever 'forgive and forget' for that will always be seared in our memory banks. I've forgiven Ms. Wonka...sure. Forget??! Nooo. However, I do have to say that the anger has subsidized over past few years.
Very seldom do I get this thought or fantasy of wanting to plant a hard right jab at the OW for a K-O (or worse).
Not too long ago...about two weeks ago...I was out running errands and I saw this woman who strongly resembled the OW. Oh.....my heart stopped and I had this strong visceral reaction to this stranger all because she looked like the OW.
I've got to hand it to you in being able to see the OW alll the time at your workplace. I am not sure if I could have coped with it as well as you have, Lisa.