Two things: you WILL be fine. The first person that found about BD was my friend/priest/former boss. We sat down to lunch and he looked me in the eye and told me that no matter what happens, I'd be OK. First time I posted here, Georgiabelle told me the same thing. And it's true. I'm fine. You will be, too.
Second, I lived the first seven months after BD with H living in our house, pretending to be the happy family, no one including our kids knowing. They just thought he went to Home Depot a lot......anyway, I would have cut off my right arm not to have to tell the kids. But H insisted, and we did. And it was really hard. But they are OK, too.
Seeing a L is a good step, U-turn. Let us know how it goes.
