I'm just feeling very alone. Although I knew this was coming I was hoping it wouldn't. Telling the kids will make it even more real.

I need to figure out how to let go, I'm just not sure how. Why do I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me?

I do think I'm going to ask him to go see some sort of counselor before we tell the kids. He may not agree to it but I think it would be a good thing.

Does anybody have any advice on not divorcing legally? pros and cons?

Obviously I'm not as crushed as I was with the original B but I'm still pretty crushed, just want to curl up in a ball and cry myself to sleep.


Last edited by lost18; 05/28/15 09:32 PM.
Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since