H Pink Great job with H. You have to treat him as a friendly neighbour. Your hurting right now because of his words but they were just that words I don't believe that your H has no idea what he wants so what he says means nothing

You are getting on with life and that's great however you need to relax and take things at a slow pace. You have your whole life ahead of you You don't need to rush things

As Toots said if you wish to tell us the tale of S21 just please give us some warning if the tale includes you arriving from outer space !!!!!!!!! I cant take to many more shocks.

Take care. Rd