Teacher needs to become the pupil

[Elly4]

Hi Teach, I can't tell you how many nights I say goodnight cheerily to my H and then go upstairs to cry into my pillow. Give yourself permission to grieve for your marriage. You will never have the same marriage again. The goal is to have a stronger, better marriage at the end, but you will still miss your old marriage right now and that's okay.

You have already shown some growth on here, and you will only grow stronger with time!