She said she was going through with filing for D, but she also admitted that doesn't mean its over. It's amazing that makes sense to her. We meet with our counselor tomorrow so it will be real interesting to see how that goes.
She believes she really has you wrapped around her little finger. She can play bounce the ball back & forth as long as she wants. IMO, you need to let it be known to her (probably during the counseling session)that you won't do it this way. IOW, tell her that if she files for D, you will take it to mean that she's not interested in being M to you....and you will be moving on with a new life. (This is what she should think about before making those type of decisions.)
In the meantime, stop the questions. Did you go see a lawyer after asking her about filing?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
