I'm on a roll today, work is way to slow. I keep looking at this stich and others and think to myself, why can't we just let go. Our spouses have all gave up or at least let go of the bond, but here we are wanting to hold on for everything it's worth. Why do we do it? And from reading a lot of posts, it seems men have the hardest time with it. I think it's our ego, our pride, our sense of being alone, all of it wrapped into a ball. Look at the stich's though. Our spouses have either took another, or just plain and simple walked away. No matter how hard we try, you can't convince a rock to roll up hill. I don't want all the venom, and spitfire I've been getting. I want happiness and understanding. I didn't give it, I understand that, but why am I holding on so tight.
Another thing that maybe I would like suggestions on if possible. My wife has rheumatoid arthritis, and has sever depression from that. She has tried various medications, but she is constantly tired. She told me last night that they are going to put her on aderall for the tiredness. She was literally just wanting to lay in bed at home, but that was more attitude with me. She seems to be getting along better, but still tired. My question is, has anyone been around this drug, or had interactions with people on it? Just curious to know if any affects are noteworthy, or something possibly common. I will try to post on here if there is anything different with her. I just don't want to do something silly, and thought I might research a bit before hand. Thanks
