I am sorry for the situation you are in. The best advice I can give you is to speak with a Divorce Busting Coach today. Divorce Busting coaches will give you the best guidance on how to save your marriage and get things moving in a more positive direction.
You mentioned that you are in month 9 of couples therapy, right? Please watch the following video regarding couples therapy.
There is much that can be done to get unstuck. From this point forward, everything you say and everything you do needs to be very strategic. Speaking with a Divorce Busting Coach will help you know what to do in order to put one foot in front of the other.
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Cristy Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.
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