I just want to talk for a bit about me. I don't really get the urges too much anymore for the porn or the alcohol. 3 weeks ago I went to a restaurant, had dinner and a beer. I could barely finish the beer and didn't care for more. It's kind of the same thing with the porn. It's gone, I still get a tick from it every once in a while, but overall my brain is getting back to a normal state. I don't just look at women and automatically think sexual thoughts. I think I would be happier just snuggling for a bit. I find I'm missing the closeness, the non sexual intimate moments the most. I just want to set next to a woman, hold her hand, put my arm around her, that kind of thing. I think that's what would make me happiest. But I have a while till I can see if that's really true.
I'm thinking if I can afford it, possibly trying nicotene gum for my chewing tobacco habit. Thee have been periods of a few months I quit, but I always go back. Has anyone used the gum for quitting smoking or such? Any bad results or is it really expensive?
