As far as moving out ... I get the self preservation things I do ... but she is the one choosing this .. its the same but a bigger platform as the MBR issue that has been discussed here.
Its YOUR place, she chooses to have the A, disrespect you, the M and the family .. she goes, or you sell the house and you both find your own places (That's what happened in my case, I was just not on the boards here during that time) but by allowing them to keep their footing in your house they are still driving the car, cake eating and not fully experiencing life without you.
