I am so so sorry that you ended up here. I am sure the trip overseas had something to do with it.
"I guess he's finally ready to tell the girls. Doesn't want to go through lawyers, he is going to make sure we are taken care of, he cares for my well-being and of course his kids. He actually isn't sure filing D is the best thing to do. Financially with taxes, says I wouldn't be able to afford the house (of course I responded that he would have to support me legally) I wouldn't have insurance."
You have to pick yourself up now. For you and the girls most of all. He is going to say anything to let you down easy, but going through the process is not easy for anyone in any situation.
Don't you DARE go down my road and take the blame. Love is a flower that two people have to choose to water and nurture.
(((lost)))
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015