Just finished up with my DB coach. At first, it felt like she was trying to steer me away from going darker. But, after talking through it a bit, she agreed with my approach. No major breakthroughs, just encouragement and some role plays, for when STBX brings everything up.

After my coaching, I sent STBX my revised text:

Hi. I've been super busy. If there is an emergency with the kids, please call or text me. I'll make myself available when it concerns them.

It definitely feels good to get the boundary out there.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15