Thank You V! Today has been a little better. I think kids are adjusting some. Talked to lawyer. He is going to put something in the documents that states that kids are not allowed to leave with WW until I know exactly where they are. I am so thankful for the great people I work for and with. They are great support for me and my kids. If D12 calls and needs me to run home, I can just go. Takes 2 minutes to get there.
I have some fun things planned with kids before they leave. Older step kids have been in touch with me also. D21 has been good support for D12. S19 is still going to be staying with me. He is gone most of the time for work anyway. Just comes home on weekends. Oldest S23 only knows what WW told him about situation. He is the only one besides little kids that does not know of WW employment. It feels good to not having that type of work going on in my home.
Is it wrong for me to have a small desire for WW to come to her senses on day and say she screwed up what could have been a good thing? I really don't want to reconcile, I would just like to hear those words. But if I don't, at least I know I tried all that I could and I did my best to stand for my marriage.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"