Thanks, Sunny. I hope it IS a phase. It is beyond gross. But what I really hate is how she refuses to take my disgust seriously.

Gan, it wasn't a rabbit hole. It just felt so familiar it hurt. Still hurts.

I was supposed to get a raise, too, that was negotiated when I was hired and is recorded in my offer letter. But she didn't bring it up and after being reprimanded for too much personal time I didn't feel like I should bring it up. To top it all off I am now eligible and need to enroll in the form health insurance, but she didn't bring that up either and now I have to wait till things settle down a bit to ask... But I have an appointment with my lawyer on Monday so I have to get that personal leave approved first and then hopefully go a couple of weeks not missing even a minute of work so she'll be better disposed to me.

All this for a woman who rarely comes in before 9:30 so she can hit the gym, is way from the office during the week a lot for various board meetings, etc. and vacations 1-2 weeks every month since I've been here.

I'm at my limit.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.