Originally Posted By: Ripken8
Sounds like she's testing and wanting control back. Wanting to make sure you are still there.

I'd keep it short. Maybe something like:

"Sorry, I've been busy. If there's an emergency regarding the kids, I'd want you to call/text me. I'll make myself available when it concerns them."

I agree. If she had an actual emergency, she would've let me know.

I dig your text edits. However, I don't want to apologize for being busy. I have considered not giving her any explanation there too.

Here's what I got now:
"Hi. I've been super busy. If there is an emergency with the kids, please call or text me. I'll make myself available when it concerns them."

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15