Diana,
That is totally one sided. I would be interested in hearing what the IC says.

As for your family, have you ever sternly told them your position (in an attempt to get them to be more supportive)? I had to do something similar, and from that point forward my family has been really supportive.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015