Thanks Matt and Rip!

Ok, detachment and text experts I need your help! STBX called twice this morning. I didn't answer either call. She then follows it up with this text message:

"Let me know if ignoring phone calls and texts is the new normal so I can know who I should contact in case of emergency."

I feel that I should respond as this is my chance to set a boundary even though it appears it is just another power move on her part.

Possible reply:

"Hey. Hope you are well. I've been super busy. It's ok to call or text about the kids."

Thoughts? Or should I not even reply?

Last edited by Defacto; 05/28/15 01:57 PM.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15