Thanks all. I love this forum! My wife has floated the idea of having a "right of first refusal" in place, whereby if one if us needs kids watched for say 4 hours or more, we would be expected to offer it up to other spouse first, to watch kids. It sounds ok in concept but a) her boyfriend us living at her house & b) she is not working. So with summer coming up and no school fir kids, I might be putting myself in position where I send kids to her house in a situation I don't approve of. Anyone have experience with this?
Me44 WAW44 T22 M13 S10 S6 BD Aug 2014 PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015 WAW file divorce Mar 2015 50/50 custody settled July 2015
