It is hard, I can totally empathise with that. You don't wanna come across as if you don't care but at the same time you don't wanna appear perusing.
It's hard to detach when they are there but I agree with teach- it gives your family a better chance of healing if you're together. Whenever I ask my h what it was that made him realise he needed to end his a it was just seeing me getting on with my life happily, enjoying myself with baby. He's also said numerous times that he never actually was planning on leaving me- but he felt he was getting away from things and living a fake life away from his problems with ow..


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16